God is the only judge. You aren’t worthy to judge another human. Stick in your world and I’ll stay in mine. Words hurt, and make people change.
I went to Oregon and came home with a new style. I was excited to share my funny looking facial hair and slicked back missionary hair with everyone. So excited, so I started with my facial hair. And kept my real on top hair the same as usual
“What’s on your face?”
“Why you looking like your from the 70s?”
“Good thing you already have a girlfriend”
“You look like a pedophile”
“You look so old”
Then I wanted to show everyone my hair and then…
“Did you where a hat today or something?”
“What did you do to your hair?”
“Why would you do that?”
“What happened?”
Well screw me then. I got made fun of by every person that saw my new hair, and insulted by all my friends while I had long facial hair. So tell me now, what picture looks happier, what picture looks more confident, and what picture looks like a guy who got all his excitement taken from him, all of his heart pulled from himself, all of the cool new things he wanted to share with the ones he loved—grabbed and stomped on. Yeah it happens and we change after people are so judged. So take a deep breath and piss off with your little thoughts that would in any way belittle someone. Just keep it to yourself and support everyone for whatever decisions they may make. Love them no matter what, and loving them means making them feel like gold every second of every day.
